Niecy Thomas
Nov 14, 20227 min read
Being Black is EXHAUSTING
Never in my wildest dreams or nightmare, rather did I think just existing would be so exhausting. It’s funny because some folks think...
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Niecy’s Nuggets is my passion project where I can be my authentic self, tell stories about my life, share thoughts, advice, and opinions.
This blog came from my love of writing which I discovered in high school. I realized this passion when I was given a journal by my favorite high school teacher after my mother passed away my Senior year. Once I started writing in the journal, I felt free. I felt heard. I felt validated. Nobody was reading these journals but just being able to get my feelings out, made me feel alive. It was in the writing that I could be my true authentic self. What I couldn’t say with my voice, I could say in words, and it sparked something in me. I found my purpose.
While reading my entries, you will have no doubt where I stand on issues and my feelings about certain things. I will probably make you and my past English teachers cringe with my writing because it won’t be proper English. I’ve been told I write like I talk. I’m good with that because it’s relatable. I don’t want to be a scholar here. I want to be real.
I hope you enjoy seeing life and my truth through my eyes. It won’t always be pretty, but it will be genuine. Enjoy and welcome to Niecy’s Nuggets!
My name is Toniece Thomas, Niecy for short. I was born in Sacramento, CA and moved to Fairfield, CA when I was in elementary school. It was there in high school where I met my husband, Eric. We’ve been married over 30 years, have 4 children and 5 grandbabies. I love being a Nana; it’s an absolute joy.
I love music, traveling and hanging out with family and friends. I consider myself to be a positive person and REAL! I try to find the beauty in every situation and every individual.
All in all, I’m just your typical cool chick next door. I was once told I’m “Everybody’s girlfriend and everybody should have a friend like me” because of my openness to talk and LISTEN to people. I like that because I try to be a blessing to everyone I meet.