This past week we saw the reversal of Roe vs Wade, which banned abortions. In most states, it even bans abortions in case of rape and incest. There are no special circumstances at all that would allow a woman to get an abortion. I experienced every emotion when I heard the news. I was pissed, angry, upset, in disbelief. I experienced hatred of a certain bunch of folks. I literally felt my blood boiling and my blood pressure going up thinking about it all and what it meant for millions of people, mostly women but this is going to have an impact of millions of PEOPLE! Because PLEASE don’t be foolish to think that these idiots are going to stop with abortion. Before I get to that part, let me first discuss my feelings on the ban on abortions. And let me just say now that you may be offended by some of the language I use. I don’t normally cuss but I reverted to my old ways and used every cuss word I know here. So, if that offends you, exit now!
First let me say, for me personally, I’m pro-life but I believe every woman should make her own decision based on what’s best for her!! At the age of 16, I found myself at an abortion clinic. It wasn’t my choice, but my parents decided for me that I wasn’t ready for a baby and abortion was the best option. They were right that I wasn’t ready, but I didn’t believe abortion was the answer. I didn’t have it in me to fight for myself or the baby because my mother was dying of breast cancer at the time. So, in order to not cause my mother and family more stress, I went to the clinic prepared to abort my child. BUT GOD! I was too far along to have an abortion, so I had to continue my pregnancy. I was secretly happy but had to contain my joy because my parents weren’t happy at all. I was blessed that my sister and brother-in-law adopted my child, so our daughter stayed in the family. At the age of 4, she came back to live with us, and my husband and I were able to raise her. So why do you ask am I so upset about this decision? Because everybody’s story doesn’t have that happy ending like mine. Let me tell you about my mom.
While I was going thru this ordeal with our first daughter, my mother tried to prepare me for the abortion and the aftereffects. She told me her story about having an abortion. She had one because of health reasons. The baby was very ill, and it was causing her to become ill as well. She was told by the doctors that if she continued the pregnancy, it was highly likely she would die. She nor my father were willing to take that chance. So, she aborted that child. I would have done the same. I can’t imagine ANY scenario where God would want a woman to live that torture! Can you imagine going thru an entire pregnancy KNOWING your baby is going to be sick, EXTREMELY sick it’s WHOLE life IF they survive and that you may die as well?? A WOMAN CAN IMAGINE THIS BUT A MAN CANNOT WHICH IS WHY THEY HAVE NO BUSINESS DICTATING WHAT HAPPENS TO A WOMAN’S BODY!!!!!
So let me get into this! I DO NOT for the life of me understand how these self-righteous idiot men who rallied for this ban have the NERVE or think they have the RIGHT to say what a woman can do with HER body!! HOW AND WHY!!!!??? It’s because they are weak ass cowards!!!! If you look at most of the men behind this, they’re OLD AND WHITE!!! They are nearing the end of life and can’t fathom the idea of not having power over something or SOMEBODY!!! They want to go back to keeping women QUIET, pregnant, and barefoot. BUT they forget that they sent their mistresses to get an ABORTION! AND PLEASE trust and believe that THAT will not change. Should their daughters be raped, they will be allowed to get an abortion. If their 2nd cousins decide to sleep together, they will be able to get an abortion. These rules don’t apply to these old white men and their families which is why they don’t care about how it affects the rest of us. Until they DIE or enough of us uprise against them, the rules won’t ever apply to them.
And if you happen to be reading this and you’re saying the people who challenged this ruling did so for the life of that unborn child, MISS ME WITH THAT BULLSHIT!!! Because it’s these SAME people who aren’t voting for any REAL gun control. So, they want to child to be born only to DIE in elementary school by someone who was able to get an AR-15 with no background check at a gun show!!! MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!! How can you on one hand say I want the child to live but yet you’re not doing one damn thing to keep that child safe once he/she gets here? See the hypocrisy?? It’s MIND BLOWING!! I saw a meme that sent me thru the roof with rage that said, abortions were banned before AR-15s. Think about that. REALLY SIT IN THAT! THEY PUT A BAN ON A WOMAN’S RIGHT WHILE UPHOLDING A PERSON’S RIGHT TO BEAR ARMS, ANY ARMS!!!! I don’t have a problem with people having guns. Hell, I love to shoot myself. BUT DAMMIT MAN!! We’re just asking for a FLIPPING BACKGROUND CHECK TO BE DONE BEFORE SOMEBODY CAN PURCHASE IT!!! But let me tell you WHY they don’t care about that either. Because the mass shootings aren’t impacting their children’s schools, their grocery stores, their teen’s colleges. It’s just happening to US, so they don’t care. And please don’t think it’s just one side of the aisle. ALL OF EM are getting their palms greased by the NRA and other lobbyists. TRUST!!! Because if they wanted REAL gun control, the Democrats could surely do more about it RIGHT NOW while they hold the House, Senate, and the presidency. Yet they come up with this nonsense gun reform that’s not reforming shit! God forbid but we all know it’s coming. They’ll be another mass shooting and they’ll offer up their thoughts and prayers. Man take those thoughts and prayers and shove them up your ass! They mean NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, to a mother grieving her child when it could have been prevented!!
I’m going to go back to abortions and how there are NO circumstances under which an abortion can take place in some states. So doesn’t matter if a woman is raped or if incest occurred. Ok let’s look at that. Here’s my thinking. They want a woman to carry a rapist’s child!!! They say it’s because it’s not the child’s fault so the child should be born. WHAT IN THE ENTIRE FUCK!!! It’s bad enough that a woman is RAPED and has to live with that every day but now you want her to carry a child of the rapist??? Some say she can give that baby up for adoption. Ok fine so now she’s got to wonder if that child will come looking for her the rest of her life??? You see how sick that is!!! I personally know a woman who carried a child of her rapist because she was pro-life. She even kept the child and raised her. They are BOTH seriously mentally messed up. The woman looks at her daughter everyday and at some point, she thinks of how she was conceived. Then when the daughter was old enough and started asking about her father and learned who he was, she just went left. She began sleeping with any and everybody and she was only 13!!!!! So, we’re about to have a generation of children who need mental help BUT WON’T GET IT BECAUSE AMERICA IS FUCKED UP IN THAT DEPARTMENT TOO! We’re not doing a DAMN thing for these kids once they get here. These old bastards just want the child here… no they don’t. These bastards just want CONTROL over the woman! That’s what this is REALLY about. Don’t be mistaken. You can look at any ghetto, trailer park and our foster care system to know that nobody who pushed for this reversal gives a damn about these kids. If they did, we wouldn’t have children going hungry. We wouldn’t have children who are terrified to go to school. KIDS ARE AFRAID TO GO TO SCHOOL!!! We wouldn’t have kids who can’t get the medical services they need. Oh, are you one of the naïve ones who are saying but we have systems in place like welfare to take care of them. Yea ok! Go to any ghetto or visit a trailer park and ask them how it’s working out for them. OH, WAIIITTTTT are you one of the ones who are saying the parents need to work to make a better life for themselves and their families. Well first of all, HOW? They don’t have the tools and resources. Think I’m lying, again go visit any ghetto or trailer park and get back to me. And honestly, you don’t even need to go that far. Check on your neighbors. I bet some of them are struggling and you don’t even know it. We have people who are working 2 jobs and STILL not able to afford to live. And now we’re going to have women who are FORCED to have children they don’t want or can’t afford. Way to go, America!
Back to rape and incest not being a reason for an abortion. When I heard this, outside of being totally pissed off, I thought to myself, they did that because they RAPE women and they’ve slept with a sister or cousin or two. You’re probably like that’s disgusting and it is!! But why ELSE would ANY MAN or ANYBODY not see rape or incest as a viable reason for wanting or NEEDING an abortion? It’s because they ENGAGE in the behavior!! Rape isn’t about sex, it’s about CONTROL! These are probably the same idiots who think they can’t rape their wives! And if this is how you think, you’re just as sick as them. You wife is NOT your property. She is allowed to say no! You marrying her doesn’t give you rights over her body. That’s a whole other blog. But in my mind, these politicians are SICK!! And I truly believe they engage or know of people who engage in this behavior and thus are trying to protect them. WHY ELSE would someone say that a woman who was FORCED to have sex with a stranger, in most cases, have to carry that man’s child?? It’s so mind boggling.
While I was reading other’s opinion on this matter, I saw a few interesting statements and thoughts. One was if a woman can’t have an abortion, the man should be forced to pay child support the moment the woman is determined to be pregnant and pay 50% of ALL those medical bills. I WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree with this statement. HIT THESE MEN IN THEIR POCKETS!! Money is all most of these losers understand anyway! So, ladies leave your doctor’s office and go straight to court and file papers! And ladies go back EVERY YEAR to get that raise in child support. EVERY YEAR! You get a raise every year at your job, right? So does he! GO BACK EVERY YEAR!! Also get a custody hearing and make him take that child EVERY OTHER WEEKEND FROM BIRTH!!! Let him deal with a crying baby at midnight, then again at 2am, then again at 4 am. Make him deal with that sick child, the one who’s throwing up in the car. Make him have to clean up poop up the baby’s back, in their hair and all over the bed. Ladies if these men want to control our bodies, until we can reverse it back, CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN! And you can ABSOLUTELY MAKE HIM RESPONSIBLE for his part in this child. DO IT! I know you may not want to deal with him, but you laid down with him, so you did at one point in time. Put your big girl panties on (the same ones you shouldn’t have dropped for him in the first place) and handle business! This of COURSE doesn’t apply if you were raped, I’m not speaking to those women. But I’m talking about the women who slept with somebody and now they’re not together. Y’all ladies HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS!!
I saw something that said it’s God’s will for that woman to have a baby, then we should do away with Viagra and the likes. It’s God’s will that your impotent right? God didn’t want you having sex anymore, so He made you go limp! So, men, LIVE with it!
Another statement I saw and it’s funny but not funny is “A heartfelt FUCK YOU to everybody who told me I was overreacting in November 2016.” I FELT THIS IN MY BONES!!!! I was one of those who had a STRONG reaction to that clown winning. It had absolutely NOTHING to do with him being a Republican and everything to do with him being an asshole! I KNEW he would cause this country harm. He was never in it for the right reasons! His entire goal was to cause chaos and division. So, in that he was successful. But my God look at the damage he’s done and it’s UNBELIEVABLE to me that so many still follow him and think he’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. Mental illness is real y’all!!
I’m going to end on this note, this is just the beginning. If you think I’m lying, go read some of what Clarence Thomas and John Cornyn said. They’re not done. Before it’s all said and done, they’d love to do away with contraceptives, gay marriage and bring back segregation in schools. I wonder how old boy Clarence would feel if they went after Loving vs Virginia??? If you don’t know what that is or why it would apply to him, look it up. But if there was ever a time to get out and vote, IT IS NOW!! I seem to say that every election but it’s true now more than ever. VOTE… EVERY ELECTION, EVERY TIME! Big or small, local, or national, VOTE!!! It’s one of the ways we can exercise our power. AND support these millennials. It’s going to be THEM that saves us. They are the most forward thinking and smart folks walking the planet. They get a bad rap because some think they’re lazy and have no work ethic. I disagree. I think they work DIFFERENTLY than we do. They don’t HAVE to get out in the streets like we did. Everything is digital in their world and they’re making it work. My son said something about a resume to me. I asked him if he needed me to type it up for him. He said no mom, it’s a QR code now. WHAT! ARE YOU KIDDING ME! So, they’re doing stuff that we don’t understand or cant’ imagine. Give these millennials some grace. Because trust me when I say it’s not our generation that’s going to fix this mess, it’s going to be them and the ones that follow. They’re the ones that are living thru the school shootings. They’re the ones out protesting. They’re the ones who are the most tolerant. So, change how you’re looking at them and what you’re saying to them because they are going to have to fix everything we broke.
Y’all stay safe, be blessed and be a blessing. AND VOTE!
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